FM Transformational Coaching
We are all creatures of stories
Stories weave the fabric of our understanding, shape our memories, and guide our actions. We learn through tales, remember through them, and build meaning around their narratives.
We think we are the conscious authors of our lives and yet we all have a blind spot: we confuse our reflection with reality. We yearn for success, for love, for fulfillment, yet find ourselves stumbling on invisible tracks laid without our conscious consent. Beneath our conscious aspirations lies a deeper narrative, often ghostwritten in early life. This unseen script can become a cage, silently dictating our actions, sabotaging our goals, and constraining our sense of what’s possible. The past is always present.
But what happens when the story we tell ourselves no longer serves us?
At FM Transformational Coaching™, we understand that the solution isn’t the misguided pursuit of finding your "authentic Self,” but rather intentionally dismantling the flawed narratives that obscure genuine growth and transformation. Together, we will bring those unconscious scripts into the light so you will be able to rewrite them, not recklessly, but with clarity, courage, and deliberate design.
“Transformation is rarely neat. It’s more like renovating a house while still living in it: unsettling, at times exhausting, but ultimately liberating.”
Federico Malatesta
The FM Transformational Coaching Programs
Over the years we’ve developed two tailored coaching pathways into this process. Far from abstract models or idealistic notions, these approaches distill real-world insights gained from Federico’s journey across cultures, roles, and identities. Grounded in robust psychology and neuroscience, each pathway integrates rigorous methodology with the hard-earned wisdom of lived experience, ensuring an authentic, scientifically-informed framework for meaningful change.
- FM Ignition™, for those seeking focused momentum and rapid pattern disruption.
- FM Mastery™, for those ready to engage in a deeper reconstruction of identity and meaning.
Both approaches rely on the proprietary FM ROADMAP® process, a systematic method for reshaping the stories that govern how you see, act, and experience the world. Through its seven integrated steps, you'll gain a deeper understanding of your agency, own your current narrative, and consciously design a future that aligns with your true aspirations.
1. FM Ignition™
The 60-Day Catalyst for Change
FM Ignition™ targets individuals who need immediate clarity and actionable momentum. Ideal when life's roles, routines, or goals suddenly feel misaligned or constrictive, this focused 60-day process swiftly disrupts entrenched patterns, recalibrates priorities, and creates dynamic forward movement.
FM Ignition™ Solves:
- Stalled momentum and directionless routines.
- Feeling trapped in outdated life narratives.
- Immediate clarity and purpose realignment.
Outcomes:
- Renewed energy and actionable next steps.
- Disrupted self-limiting cycles.
- Clearer vision aligned with authentic priorities.
2. FM Mastery™
The Five-Month System to Redesign Your Life
FM Mastery™ addresses deeper transformation through sustained reflection, critical inquiry, and systematic redesign of life narratives. Suitable for those committed to profound identity reconstruction, this five-month intensive journey helps clients consciously dismantle obsolete narratives and build expansive, resonant life stories.
FM Mastery™ Solves:
- Deep-rooted self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors.
- Prolonged dissatisfaction despite external success.
- Complex identity transitions requiring reflective recalibration.
Outcomes:
- A clearly defined, consciously chosen life narrative.
- Sustainable internal coherence and external alignment.
- Renewed engagement, clarity, and personal empowerment.
YOUR NEXT CHAPTER STARTS HERE.
Let’s begin with a 30-minute Zoom® conversation to discuss where you are, where you want to go, and how this coaching process can help you move forward with clarity and momentum.
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"Life as a journey" is a well-worn cliché.
It fits neatly with the early stages: childhood’s structured milestones, the careful choreography of family, the deliberate pacing of education and career. But as life unfolds, another metaphor feels more truthful: life as a dance. A dance has rhythm but no fixed route. It demands presence, responsiveness, and the courage to move even when the next step is uncertain.
Approaching life as an unfolding dance in a playful universe, its richness lies not in retracing a distant past or reaching some imagined future, but in inhabiting the movement itself.
Change, from this perspective, isn’t an interruption of life’s trajectory. It is the choreography, the flow and counterflow, the turns and pauses, always shifting, always evolving.
Yet even seasoned dancers lose their footing. The transitions that hold the greatest potential for growth often bring disorientation and resistance. Success isn’t guaranteed. Hard work, however relentless, no longer ensures wellness or fulfillment. In those moments, willpower alone isn’t enough. You need a new strategy, and a new story.
YOUR NEXT CHAPTER STARTS HERE
Let’s begin with a 30-minute Zoom® conversation to discuss where you are, where you want to go, and how this coaching process can help you move forward with clarity and momentum
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